See also Giacomo Sanfilippo’s more recent “St. Paul on Marriage.”
BBC Three’s Stacey Dooley has produced a 53-minute documentary, posted on January 31, entitled Russia’s War on Women. If you live in the UK you can watch the video on BBC iPlayer; outside of the UK you can watch it on DocUR. (For additional context see Ivan Nechepurenko’s January 25 article, “Russia Moves to Soften Domestic Violence Law,” in The New York Times.)

Herman and Alyona Sterligov
The segment on Russian millionaire Herman Sterligov and his wife Alyona has been making the rounds of Facebook for the past few days. In the full video linked above it begins at 8:29 when Dooley’s car pulls into the Sterligov compound and she is given a wrap-around skirt to cover her slacks. The interview with Sterligov starts at 9:25; at 13:25, he allows his wife to answer some of Dooley’s questions, but he overrides one of them. They bid adieu at 15:00.
In these five and a half minutes we learn that Herman beats his wife when he feels that she deserves it. For her part, she has written Beaten by My Husband… What I Have Had to Endure with Herman Sterligov, a book in which she defends wife-beating. (In her interview under her husband’s watchful eye she calls it “natural.”) The meaning of the photoshopped cover image could not be clearer: in front of the cabin where they and their five children live, with the Church giving her implicit blessing from the romantically hazy background, Alyona stands—with arms at her sides, as we Orthodox do when we pray—in motionless submission, seconds before Herman’s horse comes pounding down on her head.
The back story of the worldly millionaire who suddenly got religion and abandoned everything to devote himself and his family to a “traditional” Russian Orthodox life—a “tradition” which condones wife-beating—makes Dooley’s interiew and Sterligova’s book all the more troubling. Russian Orthodox men who wish to govern their wives and children in this manner have only to appeal to Domostroi (Домострой, Household Order, published in English translation by Cornell University Press), a 16th-century compendium of household advice in minute detail, written for the upper classes of Ivan the Terrible’s era. Here we read: Read More



The incident recounted below represents why dialogue has become utterly impossible in some Orthodox circles.