It sometimes seems that the multiple discursive currents, confluences, and divergences on questions of gender leave no place for a positive account of masculinity. We hardly ever hear it mentioned without its being qualified as toxic. This can have the subliminal effect of making us suppose that no other kind of masculinity exists. Our “Orthodoxy, Sissies, and the Performance of Masculinity: Part One” of March 3 (for which the promised sequel has yet to be written) elicited so much interest that it stands in 6th place among 261 articles, editorials, and open letters. Can we speak legitimately about a crisis of masculinity, not only socially and psychologically, but for our purposes indeed theologically and spiritually? What does it mean—and not mean—to be a male bearer of the divine image and acquirer of the divine likeness? For all its brevity the present article, written from one woman’s perspective, may suggest directions for an Orthodox theological exploration of these kinds of questions.
I burst out laughing the other day while reading a friend’s Facebook status. He explained that he and his two grade school sons were watching Anne of Green Gables when they came to the part where Anne and Diana have a conversation while standing on a cliff overlooking the sea. The youngest son suddenly blurted out, “Anne better watch out, Diana might push her off the cliff.”
In amazement, my friend looked at his son and asked if he thought girl friendships were the same as the physical, often rough-and-tumble one which existed between him and his brother. The conversation ended in hysterical laughter as all three of them recognized just how different male interactions are from female ones.
I thought of this story when I came across a piece by Heidi Stevens in the Chicago Tribune. Stevens, the mother of a nine-year-old boy, recently noticed how intense and troubled her son’s friendships are with other little boys. Curious, she reached out to psychologist Wendy Mogel to find out if her son was an anomaly. Mogel assured her he was not and that many other little boys wrestle with “existential questions,” including: Read More



Thank you, Irina, for your insightful comments. I do agree with you, in the sense that while the icon is distinct from and, one could say, more than, contemporary “gallery” art because of its exalted liturgical and spiritual function, it is nevertheless at least art. The icon is art and more, and not an entirely different category. In this context, “Byzantine portraiture” is an accurate description of Byzantine iconography. That is, an icon still should work well as a painting, fulfilling the aesthetic criteria of good balance, dynamism, skilled drawing, deep understanding of form, service of details to the main theme, and so on. Archimandrite Zenon (Teodor) is a wonderful example of a contemporary iconographer who possesses this artistic craft to a superlative degree.
Giacomo: Father Andrew, it’s such a pleasure to chat with you today. Thank you so much for making time for me.