ADDENDUM 4/5/26: As of June 2025, I have returned to full communion in parishes of two canonical jurisdictions where my work on sexuality, gender, and Orthodox tradition is known to the priests.
The following is an unedited post from my Facebook timeline and the Orthodoxy in Dialogue Facebook group. Defenders of True Orthodoxy™ will consider this a triumph.
I will continue to advocate for LGBTQ Orthodox Christians in my academic work (my PhD thesis on Father Pavel Florensky’s theology of same-sex love is delayed, but still in process), on the pages of Orthodoxy in Dialogue, in person, in video productions, and in books waiting on the back burner for the completion of my thesis. The most important of these will be entitled Our Life in Christ: Orthodox Spirituality for Gay Men.
Giacomo Sanfilippo

Giacomo Sanfilippo
by Deborah Ahee (Toronto, Ontario)
In 1995, I was suspended from the priesthood when my wife, for unknown reasons, separated from me three months before the birth of our last child, even though there’s no canonical requirement to suspend a priest guilty of no wrongdoing when his wife leaves him.
In April 2002, also for reasons never disclosed to me, at the recommendation of my bishop now convicted of and deposed for child sex abuse, I was deposed (defrocked) by the Holy Synod of the OCA. This was, and remains to this day, the second most catastrophic spiritual event of my life. (I’ll get to the most catastrophic one below.) Read More