In May 2017, my 801-word Conjugal Friendship ignited a firestorm when it appeared on Public Orthodoxy. It has been read over 11,000 times and remains one of Public Orthodoxy’s most viewed articles ever. In June 2018, I published a much expanded version in The Wheel, where the late Metropolitan Kallistos (Ware) made positive mention of it in his foreword. In November 2020, I posted my PhD thesis proposal on academia(.)edu, where it has been viewed 3500 times, fluctuating between the site’s top 2% and 4% of papers read. My several articles on Orthodoxy in Dialogue covering different aspects of my topic have been viewed tens of thousands of times.
At the present time, for reasons explained below, I have put the thesis on indefinite hold and begun writing a shorter, simplified book version. The director of one of the most prominent university presses in the US has expressed keen interest in what I’ve written so far, invited me to submit the book proposal to their religion editor when it’s ready, and thanked me for my LGBTQ advocacy in the Orthodox Church. Progress is moving along at a good clip. Please pray for me and for the success of this project.
Here I share the book’s foreword and introduction.
Giacomo Sanfilippo
Faustum praelium. Бой счастливой. Happy battle.
Conjugal Friendship: The Sacrament of Love
Father Pavel Florensky’s Orthodox Theology of Same-Sex Love
AUTHOR’S FOREWORD
This brief study of Father Pavel Florensky’s theological response to homosexuality, published in Moscow in 1914 as the culminating chapter of The Pillar and Ground of the Truth, comprises a simplified version of what I had planned as my PhD thesis in Theological Studies at Trinity College in the University of Toronto. Halfway through year six of my program in December 2022, with little writing to show after my committee had approved my proposal two years before, I forced myself to say the unspeakable to my supervisor: I was dropping out. As I inched closer to my 70th birthday, a series of escalating setbacks—medical, personal, a vortex of painful spiritual crises one after the other—had converged to create an impasse where it finally became impossible to imagine continuing in my doctoral program. Read More




